“Is the hotel accessible?” is the worst question you can ask, because the answer is always yes. Everybody says yes. The receptionist says yes, the booking site says yes, the little wheelchair icon says yes. Then you arrive and there are three steps up to the front door and a bathroom you could not turn a shopping trolley in.
So we stopped asking it. Now we ask specific questions that cannot be answered with a cheerful yes, and we ask them on the phone, not by email, because you learn as much from the pause before the answer as you do from the answer.
Getting in the building
- How many steps are there between the car park and reception? (Not “is it step-free” — make them count.)
- If there is a ramp, how steep is it, and is there a handrail?
- Is the main entrance the accessible one, or is it round the back past the bins?
- Is the front door automatic, or does someone have to hold it?
The room
- What is the clear width of the bedroom door, in centimetres?
- Is there space to get a wheelchair down both sides of the bed, or just one?
- How high is the bed from the floor?
- Is the room on the ground floor? If not, how many lifts serve it, and what happens if the lift fails?
The bathroom — where it usually falls apart
This is the one that catches us out most often, so we ask the most here.
- Is it a wet room with a level floor, or a shower tray with a lip?
- Is there a fixed glass screen? (A screen can make a side transfer impossible even in a room that is otherwise fine.)
- Is there a shower seat, is it fixed or free-standing, and which side is it on?
- Which side of the toilet are the grab rails on? Left, right, or both?
- Is there a red emergency cord, and does it reach the floor?
- Can you get a wheelchair under the sink?
The question that tells you everything
After all that, we ask one more: “Could you send me a photograph of the bathroom?”
A hotel that is genuinely set up for disabled guests will have those photos to hand, or will happily walk down the corridor and take them. A hotel that hesitates, or says the photos are on the website (they are not), is telling you something. We have booked on the strength of a blurry phone picture of a grab rail more than once, and we have never regretted it.
Your turn: if you have experiences of your own — the places that got it right, and the ones that got it badly wrong — tell us in the comments below. Every report helps the next traveller.